30 Days of Blogging Honesty, Day 03

 Regardless of my current status, do I believe a person should save themself for marriage…

 Well, I believe this is a very personal decision. I did not wait till marriage and it seems as though the majority of young people don't wait either. That being said, I don't think a person should save themselves, unless it is something they think is right. I know that answer sounds like a cop-out but let me explain my stand point.


Like I said before, I did not wait till marriage, but, that being said, I have only been one person, my now husband. I believe that sex is something special, that it should be saved for someone you want to be with for a long time. I am not a fan of random hook-ups, one night stands, or friends with benefits. Call me old fashioned. 

So, I do think people should wait for someone special. Wait to see if it is really love and not just lust. I don't think it is bad thing to wait till your wedding night, but I think that can be a problem as well. You wouldn't buy a car before taking it out on a test drive, right? People cannot compare to cars, but I think that "test driving" your possible future spouse can be a good thing. Sex is an important part of relationships and marriage. I think that if you are not compatible, for some people, that is a big deal. I also believe couples should live together for awhile before getting married. You really get to know a person on a whole different level when you live with them. 


Sorry this post is a little scattered. It is really hard to put my beliefs into words on this subject. All in all, I think people do whatever they feel is best for them. I am not one to judge. I know what worked for me, and that is all I can go off on. 


If you would like to partake in the 30 Days of Blogging Honesty, check out my post on it Here and on Tom's Blog Morning Erection. I will be back on Sunday for day 4!